Remember the last time you spent some quality time or had fun, laughed aloud till having stomach cramps with you? When was the last time you had a pleasant night out enjoying good food and drinks, watching a good show or movie or attending some exhibitions or events? Or maybe the last time you spent a day outdoor doing fishing, hiking, camping or even a little extreme, doing sky diving and gliding with yourself? Was it long time ago or very recent or never?
It’s not so much on what activities you do, but more on the idea that you share your favorite activities with yourself and enjoy spending time being together. You take yourself out, enjoy life and make yourself happy and having fun! Continue having fun in life without counting on others to bring you fun and laughter. You will provide yourself, you will be your having fun best partner!
What kind of fun activities did or do you like to do? Or activities that still on your to-do list, you just have not yet finding the time to do? Are these activities requiring the participation of friends, family members or others? Or can be enjoyed merely by you and yourself? Give it a try and do them with yourself. Sometimes you may find different enjoyment, teamwork and enlightenment from spending time with self. Not to let unavailability of you and others delaying you having fun!!
Right now, choose an activity that you always wanted to do or like to do; just ignore the “but…” and concerns, simply go ahead and take yourself out to enjoy and to have fun! Your action is the best loving deed to yourself!
Today I love myself by: (read the below aloud 3 times and listen to what you read)
I promise to spend good quality time with myself, taking myself out to have fun; I surprise, provide and bring fun and laughter to myself. I am my best fun accompany.
Today’s home work:
Find 1 activity that you like to enjoy and take yourself out to do it. Just have fun and just do it!
Encouragement for myself:
(It’s your space…)